Patient Advice
Topic 2: Socialise again

Start talking to people again
Abdul’s advice: I felt scared when I needed to leave the hospital. I also didn’t know how I was going to talk to people. I got back into talking by chatting with shopkeepers when buying things. Being able to do these things for myself made me feel better about going home.

Get over the fear of what other people might think
Elsie’s advice: To me that idea of going back out to society was daunting. I thought I couldn’t do it. You’re thinking ‘what will people think of me’. It’s difficult, but I thought ‘this is me and okay, I’ve changed, but I’m still me’. The first time I went out was to play Bridge. I remember going up to a friend saying ‘Oh dear, I’ll have to get my coat off!’ It went fine. And I’ve got a cardholder to hold my cards. From then on, I began to do little things extra each time I went out.

Do social activities
Deena’s advice: I find it very helpful to attend peer support meetings and to go to the rehab centre. I also do activities like dancing and playing cards that are organised by a charity.